hello to everybody....i never had time to replay....bcz im studing...and now im in holidays so im free....want to tell to all people who give me advices...thx....

and just this...k im so happy wid a person who i met on internet...he always love me...or hamain aik sal se b zyada time hogya aik sath...or now in april hamary engagement hui...and im so happy....well it was difficult convence my parents, but his parents talk to mine...or ab hum sath main hain...well mere relatives ne bohot batain banayi thin...or mujhe bohot bura samajte hain abhi b...but i dont care qk mere parents ne mere liye meri pasand ko accept kiya or mujhe kuch nahi chahiye.

bus yeh kehna chahti hun...k internet par ho sakta hai k liers hon...par ye b hai k bohot log sincere hain...or har aik par aitbar karna asan nahi...par jaisa mujhe kisi se net par pyar hua....koi b beleive nahi karta tha...my friends also tell me k ye pyar nahi...par ab sab hamesha hum dono ka pyar dekh kar bohot khush hote hain...and of course chat main mohabbat ho sakti hai.....

The only Litmus test of true love that anyone can measure is;

1- It increases its magnitude with each passing day.

2. It is based upon trust, truth, honesty, sincerety.

3- It starts with a tangible Starting point association that is marriege.

4- Its a relationship you are proud to show up to everyone around you and you dont have to keep it clandestine from the people around you.

5-It is sharing a common bond of respect and dignity for each counterpart.

6-The people in love understand each other even without expressions and words.

7-People in love keep adding the sharing of moments into the albums of their life and they love to share these moments by treasuring them and cherishing them the most.

8-It pains when your counterpart is in pain, and it fills you up with delight alone when you see your counterpart is happy.

9-Love is the emotion that is truely explained as "When you love someone, set him free, if it comes back to you, He IS Your's, but if he does'nt, He was never meant to be.

10-Love is insatiable and lust is irresistable but the subtle discernement is that in the classic phenomenon of love body is a ladder to reach the soul.

Regards.

zaffar.abbasi@gmail.com

Distinction: Love Vs. Lust

Definitions

Love - is the unconditional acceptance of all things as they are.
To alter or expand them by contributing to them in a loving way
creates blessings. To alter, judge or limit them by force or fear
creates burdens which you must carry, experience or learn from.

Lust - is wanting something that you can't have, taking something
that isn't yours, (through acquisition, force, coercion or manipulation),
and believing in something that isn't loving, (like domination, control
or sacrifice).

Comparisons

unconditional acceptance vs. wanting
contribution vs. manipulation
blessings vs. suffering

Example

Two prospective clients contact you. One inspires and energizes you. You take them on with joy. The other has some issues that you're not really comfortable dealing with. You take them on, in spite of your discomfort, after all, you have a practice to fill.

Key Point

When you love someone or something, there's a natural fit that fully utilizes your gifts and passions.
When you're lusting after someone or something, it exposes a need, a wanting, as it's not a perfect fit for you.
Use this distinction when you're making choices...do you want it because you absolutely love it, or do you want it because you want it?

Benefits

Choosing well will become effortless, and you'll love your choices.

 

Pammi jee...mohobat kee nahi jaati...Ho jaati hay

     os ka nadaaz e mohobat bhee ajeeb hay dostoo

     piyar kiya bhee tou logo say pooch pooch kar

     lagta hay hussn ka  baazar kuch aysa yahan

     wafa bhee bacychee jaati hay soch soch kar

     kaisa bura waqt aya hay mohobat pay aaj kal

     log kartain hain karobaar ki traha soch samajh kar

CONAN